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Relationship: If you want to know what love is?
The sort of love that will weather the storm with you, protect you during times of hardship, are the ones that kindly says no to things when it is needed. And whilst it does not feel good, you will know that this kind of love has the stamina to run the race.
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What would you do, If you knew the relationship you are in, has run its course? This is the story about risk.
What would you do, if you knew that your relationship has run its course? Would you continue, because it is easier? Or would you risk it for something unknown, that could possibly be great for the soul?
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Why do people with kids, go to venues (only) to get away from their kids?
This sort of daily prompt questions, where you ask someone, the first thing that comes to their minds? What a salacious question to ask? But I am … daft enough to enter this domain. So here is my response.
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A person who has the ability to suspend judgment is Unique because …
A person who has the ability to suspend their personal prejudice to seek understanding of another person’s view is a rare commodity. Here’s why?
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Relationship: If you love someone, never go to the supermarket together
When we’re single, there is always a romantic notion attached to the ideals of coupledom, and all the things we could do as a couple. Neglecting the mundaneness of life … Catching up with paired up friend/s, and them … showing wonderful holiday snaps (fuels) a tinge of envy that we are not at that…
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Forgiveness comes from a place of understanding
If you can’t do it for them, do it for you. Don’t wait to forgive. The time on earth is finite. Why are we holding a grudge? Is it because we feel entitled to it? At what cost are we paying? We never consider the hidden cost of unforgiveness. Or the fact that we ……
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You can never buy back time: Live a life without regret.
“All the world’s is a stage and all the men and women are merely players” – As you like it (Shakespeare) Don’t waste time on things we cannot not go back and change. Start anew. Turn a new page. This time around, do it better. Don’t get fixated on the idea of perfection. That’s called…
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What would you do if you weren’t afraid. A tale of courage
What would you do if you weren’t afraid? Do that. That’s your calling. Don’t look around to see what others are doing. A footstep in the sand is never the same. It has a unique pattern, just like our spirits. Sometimes, it takes a long time to play ourselves. There is no manual on how…
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A floral installation: A short tale about hope & growth
A flower does not bloom over night. Their beauty also came with many struggles. They had to fight the darkness in order to find the sun, the source of nourishment. The flower never gave up because she couldn’t see the light. She has faith. Pushing one sprout at a time. She never gave up until…
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If I could be someone else for the day?
I don’t know, because I have spent so long searching for myself and who I am suppose to be in this ecosystem, that, given the amount of energy poured into that, I think I’d want to try to play the role of myself for a while? Maybe in another life time and in a different…
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My partner’s Lay off omen and what I learnt supporting him through the murky times.
This is a post about what I learnt on how to support my partner during his lay off and job search during an infertile job market, and how compassion helped me see things through the eyes of the struggling.
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being 40 something felt like a life time away, until it wasn’t.
Discussion piece: This is a post about being in your forties and aging. I have never thought much about aging. When you are in your 20s and 30s, you feel invincible. You’re young and you have the world at your feet. Getting old feels like a million miles away. My twenties were a blur. A…
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Forgiveness comes when there is understanding.
If you can’t do it for them, do it for you. Don’t wait to forgive. The time on earth is finite. Why are we holding a grudge? Is it because we feel entitled to it? At what cost are you paying? We never consider the hidden cost of unforgiveness. Or the fact that we ……
A ruminating Heart 